Tim, Lisa
and I were running up First Avenue in Laurel a
little before six in the morning. I was whining
about cleaning cattails out of an irrigating pond
and how I planned to use my weed burner to torch
those I could not reach with my backhoe. “Weed
burner?” Lisa asked. “Is that one of those things
which goes ‘grrllck’?” Tim, a farm kid from
Missouri, smirked and glanced at me, but said not a
word as we trotted along. For a brief second an
embarrassing silence hung in the air until suddenly
Lisa jumped back in saying, “Okay, so I am a girl
and I don’t make good boy noises.” Tim and I
chuckled softly in agreement. Lisa’s dropping the
term “boy noises” sparked the conversation like a
weed burner hitting a cattail patch, so for the next
two miles we discussed the innate differences
between the sexes.
I brought up the sex-linked discrepancy in color
perception. Several years back, I received an
emergency phone call from a nice lady who had found
a lost dog and was searching for its owner. In
describing the dog she kindly offered his coat color
as being taupe. As hard as I tried, I could not
conjure a visual image of taupe. Ladies, here is a
little peek into guy life—our color acuity is
purposely limited. Mostly, we can see the three
colors or color groups, black, hunter orange, and
red, white and blue. We like simple. Tim is a bit of
an outlier as he can also see green and yellow, but
this is likely due to his career employment with
John Deere. This proves contrary to conventional
wisdom, men can be trained.
Soon we rambled to the second difference, problem
solving. Guys like to fix things. When we spot
broken stuff we plan how to fix it, or better yet,
redesign and upgrade it so it does not break again.
Whether it is a leaking toilet, a rotted brace post,
or even broken relationships, we focus on fixing it.
Ladies are not fixers; instead they prefer to
incessantly ruminate on a problem until the dilemma
finally shrugs its shoulders, surrenders in
desperation and limps on down the road. Sometimes
this discrepancy creates conflict. My oldest
daughter recently taught me, “When Mom is talking
about problems, just listen; she doesn’t want you to
fix anything.” Although it feels like we are
verbally beating a dead horse, I yield to girl logic
and approvingly nod my head to the repetitive
thrashing of problem after problem. Being a trophy
husband is not as easy as I make it appear.
The third disparity is interpreting emotion through
facial expressions; like color perception, ladies
reign supreme here as well. A while back I watched a
documentary comparing brain function differences
between men and women. While recording cerebral
electrical activity, test subjects were asked to
describe the emotion demonstrated by facial
expressions in photographs on various flash cards.
The female subjects nailed the correct response in
milliseconds using a tiny percent of their brains.
The guys, on the other hand, required minutes of
hard study utilizing 70 percent of their gray matter
to deduce an answer which was wrong as frequently as
it was right. Bubba really sucked in the facial
expression flash card test and this brings me to my
point.
Men and women, moms and dads, are innately different
with each contributing a unique, yet critical
component in the proper rearing of their children.
This is exactly as God designed, but His truth was
ignored on May 9th when the U.S. Department of
Education directed the replacement of the terms
“mother and father” with “parent one and parent two”
on Federal Application for Student Aid forms.
Harkened as a progressive leap forward, this is yet
another example how collectivism is incrementally
destroying the American family. Oops, I almost
forgot, “Happy Parent-One Day” I say as I roll my
eyes demonstrating an emotion so obvious even men
can understand. Four terms in Montana’s House has
taught me the left is freaking insane, yet perfectly
normal people across the hinterlands unknowingly
vote for Democrats and liberal Republicans all while
expecting different results. We get the government
we deserve and although ignorance is no excuse, it’s
the only one we have.
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